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Grandpa, a man of many hats July 23, 2009

Posted by guinever in christianity, death, everyday life, heaven.

I’m cleaning today, digging through a drawer that is stacked with papers and photos. I found a piece of notebook paper folded in sixths. On it was the memoir that I wrote for my Grandpa Herrick’s funeral, who died February 3, 1996.

When I think of Grandpa, I see a man with many hats. I think a lot of us here gave him at least one over the years. I see a man with many plaid shirts, suspenders, belt buckles and tools.

When I think of Grandpa, I see a man in a chair. Reading, doing crossword puzzles, winning at Scrabble, and snoring.

I remember one time he accused us grandkids of eating the toilet paper because it seemed to disappear whenever we visited.

When I think of Grandpa, I see a man who was always building and making things for the people he loved. He and my dad built the house on Beecher road. He built the cabin in the woods. The bunk beds. A see-saw and swing for us grandkids. A fort in a tree so he could hunt for deer. When he wasn’t falling off ladders, he was climbing them, to  erect a bigger than life satellite dish on the roof.

I’ll always remember the love and care he showed Grandma. The last thing he made …only minutes before he collapsed, was a sandwich for her.

For me, the most special thing he built is the simple wooden chest that still sits in the corner of my room. What once was filled with toys is now filled with linens and blankets. Even after 20 years, my name that he carved in the bottom of the toy box has not faded. Neither will these memories. The assurance that Grandpa is in Heaven makes the pain a little less and the memories even greater.

Grandma and Grandpa H

Isn’t it lovely that I have this old photo to go along with this memoir? Based on how old my brother and I look, I’m guessing this was taken around 1977.



1. Alexis Cinnamond Pullen - July 24, 2009

I love how he’s looking at you guys so affectionately! Just beautiful Guinever.


2. dooalot - July 24, 2009

What a great photograph! And wonderful memories of your wonderful Grandpa. Thanks for sharing. 🙂


3. your brother - July 24, 2009

it was a good poem and a good memory of grandpa. I even remember those days. Loved that orange tiger sweatshirt! Miss my grandpa. thanks Guinever for sharing the memory.


4. Kathy Muoio - July 29, 2009

Thanks for sharing this again, Guinever. I love seeing the picture, too. We do have a lot of good memories of him, don’t we?


5. Shirley - August 30, 2009



6. Karla - August 30, 2009

This is precious, Guinever. I loved getting to hear about your grandfather and see that wonderful picture.


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